
Sayyiduna  
Rasoolullah's  (SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam) marriage with Sayyidah  
Khadija Radi  ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha took place about fifteen years before  
the beginning  of the Revelation, he being 25, and she was 40 years old.
  She was a rich  widow and ran a large trade of her own. It was she who
  offered herself  in marriage to the Holy Prophet Muhammad SallAllaho  
Alaihi wa Sallam who  was associated with her in her trading ventures.  
From the time of her  marriage with the Holy Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi  
wa Sallam till her  death, over a period of twenty years, she gave her  
husband ease of  circumstances, and deep love and devotion.
 In  spite of  
conspicuous difference in age, Sayyiduna Rasoolullah's  SallAllaho 
Alaihi  wa Sallam love for Sayyidah Khadija Radi ALLAHu  Ta'ala Anha 
never  wavered. When death parted her from the Beloved Nabi  SallAllaho 
Alaihi  wa Sallam after having shared with him for 28 years  the toils 
and trials  of life, especially the first ten years of his  Ministry of 
Prophethood,  he deeply mourned her death. Once Sayyidah  Ayesha Radi 
ALLAHu Ta'ala  Anha asked him if she had been the only woman  worthy of 
his love.  Sayyiduna Rasoolullah SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam  replied in
 an honest  burst of tender emotion:
"She believed in me when none else did. She embraced Islam when people disbelieved me. And she helped and comforted me when there was none else to lend me a helping hand."

In  the heart  of 
the Holy Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam grateful and   affectionate
 remembrance of her remained fresh until the very end of  his  life. The
 Holy Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam remained true  and  loyal to 
Sayyidah Khadija Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha until he was over  50  years 
old. This had been the case at a time when polygamy was  normal  among 
the Arabs. Moreover, since no male offspring of Sayyidah  Khadija  Radi 
ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha survived, he had all the necessary  justification  to
 marry another woman considering that newborn daughters  were  
customarily buried alive and male offspring alone regarded as  rightful 
 heirs.

Before   Sayyiduna
 Rasoolullah SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam announced his   Prophethood he 
had lived 17 years of married life, and thereafter eleven   more years 
without ever thinking of marriage with another woman. He  was  kind to 
all her fellows and occasionally sent them gifts.
"Never was I jealous of any of the Prophet's wives", said Sayyidah Ayesha Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha, "but Khadija, although I never saw her. Her sweet memory never blurred in the Prophet's SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam heart. Once I hurt his feelings on this issue and he replied gravely, 'Allah SubHanuhu wa Ta'ala has blessed me with her love.'"
Sayyiduna   
Khadija Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha bore the Beloved Habeeb SallAllaho   
Alaihi wa Sallam seven children, the first born was named Sayyiduna   
Qaasim Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anho, after whom, according to Arab custom,   
the Holy Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam received the Kunya "Abul   
Qaasim" or "the father of Qaasim". Then were born Sayyiduna Tayyab Radi 
  ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha and Sayyiduna Taahir Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anhum   
Ajmaa'een. All of them passed away in their infancy. Amongst the   
daughters Sayyidah Ruqayya Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha was the eldest, then 
  came Sayyidah Zaynab Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha, Sayyidah Umm Kulthoom  
Radi  ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha and the last and best known of them was  
Sayyidah  Faatima Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha.

Sayyiduna   
Abdullah bin Ja'far Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha reported that he heard   
Sayyiduna Ali Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anho saying in Kufa that Allah's   
Messenger SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam said:
"The best of the women of her time was Mariam Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha, daughter of Imran, and the best of the women of her time was Khadija Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha, daughter of Khuwailid. Abu Kuraib said that Waki' pointed towards the sky and the earth. What this implies is that Mariam Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha and Khadija Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha were best in their respective times not only amongst the creatures of the earth, but of the heaven too."
Sayyiduna  Abu  
Hurayra Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha reported that Sayyiduna Jibra'eel   
Alaihis Salam came to Allah's Messenger SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam and 
  said:
"Allah's Messenger! Khadija is coming to you with a vessel of seasoned food or drink. When she comes to you, offer her greetings from her Lord, the Exalted and Glorious, and on my behalf and give her glad tidings of a palace of jewels in Paradise wherein there is no noise and no toil".
This Hadith has been narrated on the authority of Abu Hurayra Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha through another chain of transmitters with a slight variation of wordings.
Sayyidah   Ayesha 
Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha reported that Allah's Apostle  SallAllaho  
Alaihi wa Sallam gave glad tidings to Sayyidah Khadija bint  Khuwailid  
Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha of a palace in Paradise. Sayyidah  Ayesha Radi  
ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha further reported:
"Never did I feel jealous of any woman, as I was jealous of Khadija Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha. She had died three years before the Holy Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam married me. I often heard him praise her, and his Lord, the Exalted and Gracious, had commanded him to give her the glad tidings of a palace of jewels in Paradise, and whenever he slaughtered a sheep he presented its meat to her female companions".
In another Hadith, Sayyidah Ayesha Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha added:
"I annoyed him one day and said, 'It is Khadija Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha only who always prevails upon your mind'. Thereupon, Allah's Messenger SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam said, 'Allah SubHanuhu wa Ta'ala Himself had nurtured Her love in my heart.'"
Sayyidah   Ayesha 
Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha reported that Allah's Messenger   SallAllaho 
Alaihi wa Sallam did not marry any other woman till Sayyidah   Khadija's
 Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha death. The point is why did Allah's   Messenger
 SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam not marry during the lifetime of   Sayyidah
 Khadija Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha but, after her sad demise, he   married
 several wives. The fact is that the Holy Prophet of Islam   SallAllaho 
Alaihi wa Sallam married all his wives from the point of view   of 
religious necessity.
At the age of twenty-five, he married Sayyidah Khadija Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha who was forty and she remained with him for the quarter of a century as a great source of strength and consolation to him. During this period the Holy Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam was busy in instilling in the minds of the people the fundamentals of faith, Oneness of Allah SubHanuhu wa Ta'ala, Apostlehood of Muhammad SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam, life after death. He did not feel the necessity of marrying another lady because it was only in the matter of faith and belief that he had to strive hard with mankind.
At the age of twenty-five, he married Sayyidah Khadija Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha who was forty and she remained with him for the quarter of a century as a great source of strength and consolation to him. During this period the Holy Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam was busy in instilling in the minds of the people the fundamentals of faith, Oneness of Allah SubHanuhu wa Ta'ala, Apostlehood of Muhammad SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam, life after death. He did not feel the necessity of marrying another lady because it was only in the matter of faith and belief that he had to strive hard with mankind.

After  his  
migration to Madinatul Munawwara when the Islamic society was   
established and the Muslims were required to conform their personal and 
  social behaviour to the teaching of Islam, revelations for practical  
 guidance in all walks of life came from Almighty Allah SubHanuhu wa   
Ta'ala. This had to be explained in various places and in different   
spheres by the life examples of the Holy Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi wa   
Sallam. There was not one problem but numerous problems and most of them
   were social which needed solutions at every step. Thus, it was felt  
 that a group of women should be trained in Islamic ideals and it was   
done through the wives of Sayyiduna Rasoolullah SallAllaho Alaihi wa   
Sallam. It was not an ordinary work, but an important task of vast   
magnitude, which required the sweat, and labour of so many pious souls  
 and these were the noble wives of the Holy Prophet of Islam  SallAllaho
  Alaihi wa Sallam.
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Extracted from
Gateway to Heaven (A Concise Manual for Muslim Sisters)
by Sayyid Shah Aal-e-Rasool Nazmi al-Husaini al-Qadiri Barakati Marehrawi
Extracted from
Gateway to Heaven (A Concise Manual for Muslim Sisters)
by Sayyid Shah Aal-e-Rasool Nazmi al-Husaini al-Qadiri Barakati Marehrawi

